What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a caring touch full of attention and existence, without a standard kind and fixed result. Tantra massage is given from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body gets involved and erotic zones can also be touched. Of course, always with respect for (mutual) boundaries. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy also gets attention. A tantra massage occurs on the basis of equality and establishes an intimate connection in between massage provider and receiver. Psychologically, physically, at heart level and sometimes even at the depths of heart and soul. The function of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the instructions of) a natural, ecstatic state of being. The impact is typically a wonderful physical, mental well-being. Normally, the receiver is extremely relaxed, splendidly streaming and winding up well in the heart, and in higher spheres.
Tantric Massage is everything about Caring touch
A tantric massage is a caring touch full of attention and existence. Tantra massage is given from the heart. Although the majority of touch will happen through the hands (or body to body) it is in fact enjoy that touches. The hands of the giver are connected with his/her heart. The touch is loving, constantly focused on the well-being of the receiver. The recipient is also present, and gets active and also feels (eventually) from the heart. Be caring!
Filled with attention and existence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a caring touch complete of attention and presence. Don't look around or being busy with something else, no, your complete attention is on giving or receiving the massage. Tantra massage is not about regular, fixed patterns are really out of the question.
A tantric massage isn't really about a predetermined outcome
A tantric massage will always be various. You never ever understand how it will end up. It is not the strategy or the wanted sequence of massaging that is necessary, it has to do with exactly what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most need at the moment? What benefits her/him? Love knows what to do, love constantly has a suitable action. Therefore the massage will be exactly that what is required. Enough is that the giver is present and keeps tuning in to his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine also has its own plan, you cannot "do" it.
Tantric massages for that reason typically take an extremely surprising course. A tantric massage does not always have to be "great", ending in happiness.
Ways to get the very best from your tantric massage
Always with respect to limitations
We understood it for a long time, of course, but since the #MeToo revelations, some things have come up in the world of tantra massage. Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage.
Set clear boundaries beforehand
Everyone (except when you are enlightened) has his limitations. This is human and is also needed (check out the article on securing boundaries. Think in advance (both as giver and receiver) what your limits are. Make sure there is a proper intake, and a decent preparation (likewise with your lover/massage partner). Set clear boundaries beforehand: about psychological boundaries, and likewise take care for clearness about physical boundaries. It is a mistaken belief that a tantric massage need to always be naked, nonsense. With clothes on is also entirely okay (though hard to work with oil then). It is also a misunderstanding that a tantric massage ought to be concentrated on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), rubbish too. Personally, we have given/received lots of tantric massages only on the head. In addition, in fact each cell is sensual, but you will be astonished.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let flow easily
Activating and releasing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the entire body participates and erogenous zones can also be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of standard/ sexual/ emotional/ passionate/ love/ creation/ instinctive energy.
Concentrated on the natural overjoyed state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage is part of "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is an extremely useful, body-oriented movement, a vision of life targeted at growing in love and awareness. In a split 2nd you can become enlightened (by 1000% surrender), however normally, that is a process in time. Tantra understands different strategies to utilize on the journey to enlightenment. As far as we are worried, tantra massage is one of them. Tantra has no function aside from self-realization: bring back the natural (delighted) state of being.
Normally leading to a wonderful physical, psychological well-being
Tantra assists you to become more unwinded, more dynamic, more energetic, more loving therefore a lot more. In fact, you "learn" to enjoy yourself, your body, your (sexual) energy and life itself. This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. Because this is exactly what takes place typically: the recipient is enjoying it! Enjoying is completely allowed! A tantra massage is generally nice, in some cases tasty. We, for that reason, welcome you to fully delight in getting ánd giving a tantric massage. Feel, utilize your senses. Hear, smell, taste, feel and show that you like it. Let your body speak!
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are many kinds of massage. Naturally, all massages have particular practices and methods in common. Yet there is a big distinction with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (intended at relaxation).
* Sports massage (focused on the muscles).
* Sexual massage (aimed at enjoyment fulfillment).
* (Body) treatment (focused on healing).
Well because you are actually incredibly energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT a sensual massage either. It's a kind of style these days to see tantra massage as a therapy, however therapy is an occupation apart.
The fundamentals of tantric massage.
For an in-depth explanation, see the article on the fundamentals of tantric massage. In summary, the following fundamentals stand out:
Tantra massage ideas-- prior to you begin
* Create a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Supply good conditions (physically, but likewise mentally).
* Explain contracts!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage pointers-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Make sure your massage is demand totally free, do not press or require anything.
* Open your very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Trigger (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the entire body.
* Don't just use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Every now and then ... do absolutely nothing at all! Be 1000% present. Delight in!
* Utilize your senses.
* Provide feedback (enjoyment sounds?).
* Build in integration (rest) minutes.
Demand totally free.
A tantra massage is not a work task, so as a giver you can also enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Once again, do not attempt to enforce anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! You might not be waiting for an emotional cry, but a tantric massage has no objective.
Tantra massage suggestions-- after the massage.
* Take enough time to procedure, to let the massage settle.
* Take time to exchange your experiences.
* Understand that a tantric massage can have an effect for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not right away go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 important tantra massage pointers (insights/rules).
* Don't work towards an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a pleased ending massage? Yes it can be, it generally is but there is no pressure for you to carry out, this is about letting that energy circulation.
* Regard borders, set clear boundaries ahead of time. Our masseuses are primarily very open minded - they are naturally due to the fact that of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the dreams of the recipient in mind, obviously. Nevertheless, know that it can turn out in a different way.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Energize the entire body. Being aroused is regular and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are extremely crucial! A lot can show up.
* Be alert to renewed freezing moments. Prevent limitations from being crossed once again.
* Step by step ending up being freer ... Growing trust ... fine. However beware: no sex! Practice makes ideal. Enjoying the renewed balance and connection between sex and heart.
* Give feedback (e.g. pleasure sounds) and provide integration moments (simply doing nothing).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual complete satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage occur?
Do not discharge, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we imply don't hurry to the climatic ending, hold it, be in the moment, let that sexual energy construct and flood your entire body.
Possible impacts of tantric massage.
Gives peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and relaxed (however you will not go to sleep). During/after the massage it becomes quiet in your head (in some cases totally empty).
Brings your life energy into motion.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of incredibly streaming life energy. Your body armor becomes softer, thinner or perhaps disappears. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a prospective recovery impact. It is possible that blockages, psychological injuries concern the surface. There might be a psychological release, consisting of physical reactions such as shaking, sobbing, shocks. Despite the fact that tantra massage is not the like healing, this release may heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more loving, you discover what it is like to love yourself. You experience that whatever, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. And that provides an incredibly liberating and deeply pleased feeling.
Is taking pleasure in.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The combination of relaxation and a great deal of energy implies that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies. With the love improvement, you might become not only joyful but even euphoric. A happy state of being is possible. The more you surrender, the better you will feel.
Simply put, tantric massage is ...
* A loving touch.
* Filled with attention and existence.
* The entire body participates.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without standard type, without predefined result.
* With respect to (mutual) boundaries.
* Establishes a (heart) connection in Lodon Tantric between the giver and receiver.
* Concentrated on the natural, delighted state of being of the recipient.
* Normally resulting in a fantastic physical, mental well-being (of both).